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I am Brave and Beautiful – a beauty movement that is sweeping the globe.
Colbie Caillat started it with her
recent song and video called TRY. My blogging friend
Megan of Brassy Apple wanted to push this movement along and invited women from all over to share what they looked like without make up and I joined in!! Colbie’s song says,
“Take your make up off. Let your hair down… Look into the mirror at yourself, Do you like you? Cause I like you… “
Megan and her friend
Cobi of Peacefrom6pieces have been the team behind this whole project. Their worldwide vision included creating their own video inspired by the song TRY. The talent of
Robbins Creative made it possible for them to pull it off. You have to click play and see the beauty and bravery displayed and you might even recognize a few faces in there.
Me along with 101+ other blogging women from different backgrounds, religions, ethnicities, ages, shapes and sizes have decided to be Brave and Beautiful! You can join in this movement too by sharing what you look like without makeup on. You don’t need a blog either! Just tag your photo with
#IamBraveAndBeautiful on Instgram and search the hashtag to see who else has joined in. ALSO, if you tag it with a second hashtag –
#ColbieTRY we just might be able to get Colbie Caillat’s attention since she was the inspiration behind it all!
Are you brave and beautiful? I am, here I go!
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Holding my daughter Chayse the day she was born, July 11, 2014. |
When I first heard about the Brave and Beautiful project, I immediately knew I wanted to take part. As I thought about what I wanted to share, two experiences came to my mind. The first took place a couple weeks after my daughter was born this last July.
I was looking through all the photos we had taken the day she was born and I hesitated at the photo above and then quickly passed over it deeming it not “social media worthy”. Why? Well, because on any given day you can look on Pinterest, Facebook & Instagram and see other moms with their new babies looking a whole lot more put together. Their hair is perfectly curled and cascading just right, their makeup is impeccable, they have cute pajamas on, their baby is in a new adorable onsie and wrapped in a super cute luxurious blanket, there are floral arrangements from friends focused just right to the side of them, etc.
Comparing myself to those photos, all I could notice was that while I had showered my hair wasn’t done, my makeup wasn’t done, baby girl was still in the hospital onsie and blanket, the lighting was awful…want me to go on? I was so stuck in the comparison trap that I was forgetting the joy and beauty of that night when Chayse was finally released from monitoring and I got to have her in my room and hold her as much as I wanted. How sad is that?!
Sure, I looked tired in this photo and the lighting is awful, but you know what I brought that little girl in my arms into the world just a few hours earlier and that took work! HARD work! And it was scary, and intense, and it took more than I thought I had during some of it, but I did it! (With the amazing help of some doctors and nurses of course)! Our little girl was safe, healthy and finally in my arms.
That’s what I should have been focusing on and remembering when I looked at that photo. How strong, brave, and truthfully amazing I was during her delivery. Not how my photo doesn’t compare to everyone else’s.
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With my son Titan in Disney World (May 2014 | 36 Weeks Pregnant and no makeup because I just did not have the energy!) |
The second moment is from a few years ago, I was sitting in a conference/lecture and the speaker
caught me off guard by asking me directly, “Are you beautiful? Are you pretty?” and then she waited for a response in front of the other 100-120 attendees. You know, nothing like being put on the spot. All around me I had people very nicely and politely whispering, “Say, yes. You should say yes.”
What was my response? I really wasn’t quite sure what to say, so I said, “Well, I guess it depends on who you ask?” To which she replied, “Because you know in some cultures you could be too skinny, right? Or in others too fat? And some might think you are too pale, while others might think you are too tan. It’s all about perspective….” (And then she transitioned into something else probably about how at any given moment we can change our perspective and change our attitude).
Looking back on that experience, my answer should have been “YES! Yes, I am beautiful.” And that should be the answer we all have any time anyone asks us that question or even any time we look in the mirror and ask ourselves that question!
That’s the way I know I want my daughter to answer that question as she gets older. No matter her hair color, weight, makeup expertise, the labels on her clothing, etc. I want her to always be able to say “Yes, I am beautiful.” without hesitation. And I want her to know that she is beautiful because she is one of a kind, because she is a daughter of God and because she serves and loves others. Of course, the first step in teaching her that is to model that behavior myself.
So… “Yes, I am beautiful! Yes, I am brave!”
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Don’t stop here. Get clicking around – its a blog hop! Below are more brave and beautiful women bearing more than their natural beauty. They each have a little bit of their heart to share with you. Some get very personal. Some share stories. For some this was very hard to do yet they gathered their courage and did it anyway. We hope as you click around (and YES pin these different posts!) you will feel the importance of it, the empowering effect it has and that it encourages you in some way.
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This is such a great post! You ARE beautiful!! So excited to be part of this campaign with so many amazing women!! #womenneedwomen #hugstimesfive
your words are beautiful, your experiences and realizations are beautiful, and so are you! I am loving reading through all of the other posts from this project. I think we all know deep down inside that these things are true, but we can use the reminder!
Great post. Thanks so much for sharing! Lisa~
there isn't much better than that moment of getting to coo and cuddle with your newborn. And your right, while some pictures look amazing most of us are worn out and just happy to be cuddling, not worrying about how we look. Good for you for remembering what a special moment it was!
Loved your motherhood stories!!! thank you for joining in!